Whore vs. Wife

About a year ago, my friend "J" and I were having drinks. We were discussing past relationships, flings, guys that are interested in us now, etc. when we realized that men, all men, whether they admit it or not classify women in two categories. The whores... and The wives. The whores are the girls they find attractive (especially at 2am) The women they are pretty sure will sleep with them on the first date. The chicks they view as adventurous, strong-willed and wild in bed. The girls every guy wants to bang. But that's where it ends. Then there are the wives. They are the sweet, kind, caretakers. The girls that would make you homemade chicken noodle soup if you were sick. The girls that you could picture having your children. The women you want to marry. It goes like this, a lot of times guys just aren't ready for the wives, so they go from whore to whore to whore. Fullfilling their dirty needs, waiting to grow up. And then when they do, they start looking for a wife... leaving the whores in the dust. And here in lies the problem. We whores are datable. We could make a good impression on the parents. We could be a great wife. But men have already catergorized us as only the whore, a role they can not seem to see past. For a long time, I thought all men believed in this. And that I was destined to be someone's whore for the rest of my life, never having the opportunity to be looked at as a wife. And then I met the love of my life. The man who appreciates the fact that I was wild, in and out of the bedroom. Who likes that I am strong-willed, don't cook, and won't ever drive a mini-van. I found a man who thinks there is absolutely no reason a whore can't be a wife. His favorite line is "A lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets". He accepts me for exactly who I am... wanting nothing more and nothing less. So the point: Men-Open your fucking eyes. Stop thinking there are only 2 categories of women. Start realizing that if you looked at that whore as more than a whore, you might actually get incredible sex for the rest of your life! And Women-Embrace who you are. If you are a whore, accept it, love it, flaunt it, never change it and never settle for a man who can't see it's the whores that make the best wives!!!

A New Breed of Woman..

I'm not June Cleaver. Your dinner will not be waiting on the table. I will not wait at the door to kiss you goodbye every morning. And there will be no packed lunches. You won't ever catch me in a flowery apron and I don't sing while I clean. When you describe me, "sweet" will not be the first word out of your mouth. And your wish... will never be my command. I am strongwilled... independent and capable. I want more in life than to be someone's girlfriend... caretaker... wife. I have goals and aspirations... and none of them include learning how to cook!! And I know I am not alone... so I think it is time we all realize that there is a new breed of woman. The kind of woman who wants it all... and isn't afraid to go after it. The kind of woman who takes on anyone who gets in her way. The kind of woman who will never say... do... or be... exactly what you want. With me, what you see is what you get. Don't expect any more... or any less!