Perfect Partner

Listen up ladies... I have a new theory when it comes to picking the perfect man. It goes a little something like this: If you are not good at something, find a boyfriend who is.
Think I'm crazy?? Or totally off base about what is important when picking a partner, it's totally working for me!!
I suck at cooking and have no desire to learn. Who am I dating? A professional chef. It couldn't be better. I get great food and I don't have to cook it.
I have no idea about car stuff. My boyfriend washes his own car, changes his own oil, knows what that stuff is under the hood!! He's not a mechanic, but he will certainly be able to save me some time and money.
Not only is he good with the car.. he is just plain good at fixing things... and the best part. He loves doing things for me.
This is what we all need... someone to pick up the slack where our talents are lacking... (The key here ladies is you too have to be good at something, which luckily I am!!!!!)

Buffet of Friends

Is it just me or does everyone have a buffet of friends?? I was thinking about all the significant people I have choosen in my life, and I realized, they are vastly different. They each seem to fill a different role in my life, and in most cases, they are good at something or have some characteristic that I feel I am lacking. For instance, take my boyfriend... hello! He's a chef... meanwhile I can't even pretend to cook, nor do I have any desire to learn. Then there is my other friend... we'll just call her "J". She is incredibly smart... you know, book smart, and she is a wiz on the computer (the only reason I even have this blog!). Another one of my good friends "Y" is the most compassionate, caring person I have ever met. She is incredibly patient and selfless, qualities I totally admire. Another one of my friends "S" is just smoking hot. I mean she is constantly dating 3 or 4 guys at a time. Men are always lusting over her. She is just about every guys fantasy. It's not that I want to be like any of my friends. I have just realized that I seem to choose people in my life that bring something new and exciting to my life... they are my buffet of friends!!!